venting.

okay. i can understand having sex in your own room. i can understand that, every one has needs and you have the right to have sex in your own room. but you will never have the right to have sex in a public shower. it is discourteous and could possibly be dangerous in the unlikely event that someone else may come into contact with any bodily fluids that could be present in said shower after you have sex in it. perhaps it was slightly disrespectful for me to call you on it, but i'm sick of day after day after day of hearing people have sex in the shower that i shower in. i did not purposefully leave the bathroom locked. i'm sorry that you had to walk up the flight of stairs to the other bathroom in our house, but i'm pretty sure that you can survive that for a few hours. and if you call security i will happily unlock the bathroom door and then point out that you have had a smelly couch in the living room since the second week of school. this is violation of building fire code and the lawrence social code, and as stated in the student handbook you should be charged $15 per day that the couch is in this public space. and not only that i would point out that you have beer in our public kitchen, not even to mention that you are not 21 and should not be possessing alcohol anyway. if you want to play that game i'm positive that your life will be much worse than mine. this is primarily because you actually break rules and act like a selfish child. do not blame me for your problems. any decent person would object to your behavior. in fact your roommate doesn't like it either. and i have no qualms about talking to susan or patrick or the dean of students or j-board or janet or anyone else who will listen about your inability to follow campus-sanctioned policies that you are required to follow. i have tried giving you the benefit of the doubt and tried to ask nicely to have you stop your offending behavior, but it is clear that you do not respond to anything reasonable or age appropriate. if you act like a child, i will treat you like a child. and if that means you have to be constantly reminded that playing beer pong in our lounge or having sex in our shower is a bad idea, then so be it. also, when i say 'our' i do not mean 'mine and eliana's', i mean 'the house's'. i realize this may be hard for you to understand, but yes i do realize that the bathroom and lounge is yours to use as well, but you do not have the only say in the matter of how it used just as i do not. i am thinking of us all when i say that you shouldn't get beer all over our carpet, get your bodily fluids in our shower or pollute our room/study environment with you sexual noise. think about the bigger picture and you will see that your actions are affecting a lot more people than just me and my roommate. you are affecting the entire house and the entire lawrence community by not respecting this space that is given to you. please be mature and assume responsibilty for this space and your actions. thank you.